Elopements
Sometimes the idea of lots of people witnessing your ceremony doesn't sit right with you, and there can be many reasons for that. Lists of logistics and lots of planning versus simplicity and presence. I get it.
Sometimes you just want to marry your person.
This might be for you if…
You want a ceremony that matters without the production around it. Maybe you're drawn to a particular place, a cliff, a beach, a forest, or a favourite corner of the world that's already special to you. Maybe it's just the two of you, or maybe a handful of your favourite humans come along too. Either way, the point is the same: a meaningful moment that feels like yours.
Doing it your way
doesn’t have to mean
floating down a river.
(But it totally can.)
SIMPLE DOESN'T MEAN LESS
Some of the most impactful ceremonies I've been part of have happened with very few guests (if any), a couple of suppliers with muddy boots, gathering in a beautiful location that means something to you, or perhaps taking on the elements of nature in an entirely new place that you'll have a fondness for forevermore.
Cos we usually have a small group of people there we can be flexible and adapt as we need to. It's these unique and often simple contexts that make elopements so damn gratifying for everyone involved. And hand on heart, the couple are so relaxed and present every time.
If you are contemplating eloping, I promise ya I have never heard a single couple regret their decision. Quite the opposite actually. They are always so darn glad they leaned in and followed that niggle.
At the end of the day your loved ones are always happy for you whatever you decide. They love you. And this day is about you first and foremost.
What's clear is that simplifying the to-do list, picking and choosing what you actually want to invest in, and celebrating in a way that feels right for you, matters most every time.
An elopement done well isn't a wedding with bits removed.
It's a completely different experience.
There is less noise.
Definitely less pressure.
And so much more room to be present.
And focus on one another, and what you're actually here for:
To get married!
How it all works:
Online planning call
A relaxed half hour where I get to know you both, what you're picturing for the day and what definitely isn't part of the plan, so we can shape a simple plan together. You'll walk away knowing exactly how it'll flow.
The fun stuff
You'll each fill in a short questionnaire about what you love about each other, which I'll use to make your ceremony feel like you, and I'll send you resources to help with your vows too, plenty of support to make them the best they can be!
Ceremony creation
Using what you've shared, I write a short, personalised ceremony that sets up the perfect space for the two of you to feel present, relaxed and enjoy every second together.
Final check-in
We touch base in the lead-up to confirm the last details.
And answer any last questions you have.
On the day
My job is to keep things calm, joyful and intimate, with relaxed conversation, no rushing, and a ceremony that feels completely yours.
Everything you need. Nothing you don't
INVESTMENT
Elopements from $1,200
Simple ceremonies from $600
If you're not sure which option fits best, let's chat.
Want more depth
This package is the short personalised version, built to set the mood rather than tell your whole story. If you'd rather go deeper and really dig into your life together, the Golden Wedding Experience can still happen at an elopement, and just cos you are having a simpler day doesn't mean the ceremony shouldn't take the time to celebrate everything about the two of you.
Simple Ceremonies
Simple Ceremony (also known as legal's only)
Sometimes all you want is the legal side of things done simply and properly. This is for couples who just want the basic legal words that make it official, with room for your own vows or a ring exchange if you'd like them in there too.
- The legal vows and paperwork, handled properly
- Your own vows or a ring exchange, included if you want them
- One online call beforehand to sort the details
- On the day, a simple, relaxed ceremony that is casual if you want it to be and led when it needs to be.
- From $600
Not sure if this or an elopement is the better fit?
Photo by Briars Atlas